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自律是成功的基石

  胸中藏有大志的人,往往是一个很自律的人。

  重庆谈判中,蒋介石曾对秘书陈布雷说:“毛泽东不可轻视。他嗜烟如命,但他知道我不吸烟后,在同我谈话期间,竟绝不抽一支。对他的决心和精神,不可小视!”

  自律的人,既可怕,又可敬。如果是伙伴,你要跟他学会律己;如果是对手,你要做好足够的心理准备。

  以前总觉得,人生苦短,应及时行乐。今朝有酒今朝醉,人不风流枉少年。直到后来,我渐渐发现:每一个不自律的行为,都会给你带来更大的痛苦。不要做欲望的奴隶,自律可以令我们活得更高级。

  自由的本质不是放纵自己,不是无所不为,而是自律之后的舒畅,是有所为,有所不为!

  人为什么要自律?

  很多时候,我们只看到了别人优秀的样子,却往往忽略了他们为此付出了近乎自虐般的努力。

  一个自律到骨子里的人,看上去大多是无趣的。

  在别人出去玩乐的时候,一个人窝在那里看书;在别人享用着美食的时候,在健身房里挥汗如雨;周末的时光,很多人慵懒地睡到中午,他依旧雷打不动的早起、跑步、看书、工作…

  这样的人,不仅看起来无趣,甚至感觉有自虐倾向,活得一点都不洒脱和自由。

  但真实情况是,自律的人比不自律的人要自由得多。

  如果你总是随心所欲,讲究及时行乐,不知道努力,别人玩你也玩,别人努力你还在玩,依旧放纵自己。

  那么如此不自律的你,现在看似是自由的,但你会发现自己越活越没有自由,没有选择的资本

  康德说,所谓自由,不是随心所欲,而是自我主宰

  越自律,越有话语权,身体和人生都是如此。

  一天两天看不出来,一个月两个月也许还是看不出来,但是一年两年,甚至十年二十年,自律的人和不自律的人,终将走上截然不同的道路。

  付出和回报是成正比的,量变足够了才可能促成质变。

  这就是一个人为什么要自律的原因,和梦想沾不上边,就是简简单单地为自己以后能真正自由一点,身体和人生都自由一点。

  是啊。

  越是自律的人越明白自己真正想要的是什么,所以才不会把时间和精力白白浪费在无意义的事情上,而是真的把碎片化时间都利用起来成长自己。

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